November 9, 2009

Our Buddhist Hearts

In my quest to chill myself out, I'm reading Awakening the Buddhist Heart by Lama Surya Das. I haven't even finished the first chapter-- I'm a bit of a slow non-fiction reader-- but I found this interesting tidbit you probably already knew:

"According to Tibetan Buddhism we have each had so many births that in all probability our paths have crossed time and time again. Wondrously connected to one another, we have been for each other brothers, sisters, cousins, aunts, children, fathers, mothers, and mates . . . each person we meet has at one time been a close, caring family member and should be treated with the respect and love such a relationship deserves."

So, who do you think we were to each other in our past lives? I don't know, but I like the idea that whoever you are, reading my blog, we are not strangers. Man, this idea could really help to cure the road rage epidemic, among other epidemics.

Here's another thing: Before I picked up this book, I'd been thinking about the ways some of my new relationships out here in The Woods mirror friendships I have (or had) in California-- almost as if the issues I didn't resolve with myself, or with others, in that past life are finding another way to surface. Of course, I don't seem to have much say in the matter, so in true Buddhist fashion I'm trying to be ok with that.

So maybe that's how it works for everyone? Not only do we have chance after chance to untangle our knots during this lifetime, but in all of our following lifetimes as well.

I'm not sure, though, if that makes me feel more motivated or just a little lazy.

3 comments:

Anonymous said...

This makes sense to me. People often run, or move away from issues they don't want to deal with in their everyday life, only to find out the same issues pop up somewhere else but with different relationships. I know I'm supposed to figure out, work out, or whatever issues I have with people but knowing I may create conflict keeps me at bay. I have to say, I'm better at not being a reactionist. I suppose this is a good start... Love, Mom

Ashley said...

Be careful in reading DAS - he's a PHONY!

(Lama) Surya Das is Tibetan Buddhism's bad-boy! This guy is a one man army of bad press for all BUDDHISTS! He's married, has sex w/his female students, begins the affairs while on retreat, dates other women while he's at it, and when the Dzogchen Foundation's Board Members and the three Associate Teachers working under Das find out, he throws a fit like a 2-year old and they ALL RESIGN! This guy lost 75% of his sangha as well. Now he's all over Facebook and Twitter drumming up business w/his new girlfriend, a doctor in Laguna Beach, CA, who's married! If you mention Das' name around a Tibetan born Dharma teacher, they'll either ignore you or they make a sour face... sorry to say we tried to tell his sangha many times that he was a fake but they had to learn the hard way and for themselves. Now they ignore him too! He's known as a "player"and Das is only interested, he's the same old tired story, sex and money!

Patricia Caspers said...

Wow, Ashley. I never would have guessed. Thanks for the heads up.